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@9 minutes ago with 20990 notes
sosinceree said: How would you express/explain/share your submissive side to a suitor who is more on the vanilla and met you in an arena that wouldn't allow him to infer that side of you ie grocery store, Lounge bar, etc
@10 minutes ago with 36 notes
This is a really good question.
The way that I’ve done this is to explain that I like old-school, traditional, male-head-of-household relationships . So I’ll say something like, “I’m kind of old-fashioned and I like for my man to lead me and make most of the decisions.” I’ll let him know that I am independent and able to make decisions, but in my relationships I find it freeing and comforting for my man to be in charge. I make it clear that I like dominant personalities and confidence and want him to essentially be the leader. I’ll tell him that I enjoy being domestic and like things like having him order for me when we go out, select activities for dates and generally court in me a way that guys don’t nowadays.
Once I get a feel for whether or not that’s something he would be into, I’ll let him know more about the kinds of kink I like. Even if he’s not experiences in BDSM, if he’s open minded and turned on by it, I think that I could make it work if he had that naturally strong, dominant, assertive personality type I like.
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